Embrace it

"If through a broken heart God can bring His purposes to pass in the world, then thank Him for breaking your heart."

— Oswald Chambers

Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, when you endure trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance.  Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.
— James 1: 2-4

"It was good for me to be afflicted, that I might learn your decrees." - Psalm 119:71